Spring is finally in the air, and many are making changes in their life? So, why not change your relationship as well? I came across this article online and here are some ways to spot if you are in a bad relationship.
1. You feel the need to change who you are to make your partner happy.
Everyone makes little changes and maybe some sacrifices while they are in a relationship, but you shouldn’t have to drastically change who you are to make your partner happy.
2.You have to defend your significant other to family and friends.
Every time you hang out with your friends or family you shouldn’t have to make constant excuses for your significant other. It’s time to face the truth!
3. You’re always wondering what your partner is up to when you’re not around.
If your partner always keeps their phone on silent, and isn’t able to hang out all the time, then it may be time to dump them. You should always have 100% trust in your partner, and if you aren’t able to then it isn’t a relationship for you.
4. You feel personally responsible for your partner’s happiness.
This should be a huge red flag when you feel personally responsible for your partner’s happiness. The two of you should find happiness and not rely solely on each other for it.
5. Your partner controls who you see and what you do.
This might be the biggest red flag of all. If your partner is control who you hang out with and when, then it’s time to leave that relationship!
I hope this helps everyone on the quest to love!
-Love Sara Alina